"It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves."- Sir Edmund Hillary.
In 1953, Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay became the first people to reach the summit of Mount Everest. It was a staggering physical achievement. But it was also a mental one.
When asked what it felt like to stand on top of the world, Hillary did not talk about glory or victory. He talked about relief — and about a quiet certainty that the impossible could be made possible through perseverance.
What often gets overlooked in stories like theirs is this: Hillary and Norgay’s success was not just about physical endurance. It was about teaching their own brains, step by step, to override fear, doubt, and exhaustion. They were not just climbing a mountain. They were reshaping their inner experience of what was achievable.
That same process — overcoming mental barriers through physical action — is available to all of us, in far smaller but no less meaningful ways.
Why Thinking Harder Does Not Create Change
For decades, behavior science assumed that if people wanted change badly enough, they would simply choose it. But study after study has shown this is not how human behavior actually works.
When you are under stress, overwhelmed, or facing uncertainty, the prefrontal cortex — the part of your brain responsible for planning and decision-making — quickly tires. In its place, your brain falls back on older, faster systems designed for survival, particularly the basal ganglia, which controls habitual behavior.
This is why people often return to old patterns even after promising themselves they will act differently. It is not a lack of desire or intelligence. It is the brain conserving energy by falling back on automatic routines.
If you try to "think" your way through every challenge, especially when emotions are running high, you are working against your own biology. Lasting change requires a different approach — one that speaks to the parts of the brain that actually drive behavior when it matters most.
Movement is one of the most direct ways to reach those deeper systems.
What Happens to Your Brain When You Move Through Challenge
When you push your body even slightly outside its comfort zone, you activate a cascade of changes inside your brain.
Movement stimulates the release of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which promotes the growth of new neural pathways. Physical exertion also resets your nervous system from a hypervigilant, sympathetic state into a calmer, more balanced parasympathetic state. Breathing deepens, cortisol levels drop, and emotional regulation improves.
Over time, repeated physical challenges also recalibrate your brain’s reward system.
Instead of craving only quick fixes or easy comforts, your brain begins to associate effort itself with a sense of satisfaction and growth.
Most importantly, each time you overcome physical resistance — even for a minute — you reinforce a new internal story about who you are. You start to see yourself not as someone trapped by fear or fatigue, but as someone who moves forward despite them.
Why Physical Action Breaks Emotional Stuckness
Emotional pain, trauma, and chronic stress often trap people in patterns of freezing, avoiding, or spiraling thoughts. Movement disrupts those patterns at a physiological level.
When you engage your body intentionally, even with something as simple as a short walk, you send signals to your brain's threat detection systems that you are not powerless. You shift from being stuck in thought to acting in the world.
This effect is not hypothetical. It is why trauma-informed therapies often include somatic practices like yoga, walking, or bilateral movement. Movement helps complete stress cycles and restore a sense of safety and agency.
When you move — even gently — you teach your nervous system that you are capable of engaging with life rather than retreating from it.
Why Small Physical Challenges Matter More Than Big Goals
Big goals are inspiring, but they are rarely sustainable when you are trying to rewire deep patterns.
The brain builds resilience through manageable, repeated experiences of success. Small, daily physical efforts create a rhythm of progress that feels achievable and real.
It could be walking ten minutes after lunch.
It could be stretching while waiting for the coffee to brew.
It could be holding a plank position for twenty seconds longer than feels comfortable.
Each time you choose effort over avoidance, no matter how minor it seems, you are not just exercising your body. You are teaching your brain a new way to engage with the world.
And you are reinforcing the identity of someone who moves through challenges instead of shrinking from them.
How to Apply This Today
You do not need a perfect plan or a fitness routine to start using physical action as a tool for growth.
Today, you can simply ask yourself:
Where am I stuck right now — mentally, emotionally, or behaviorally?
And then you can move — in any direction.
If you are overwhelmed by work, take a five-minute walk around the block.
If you are anxious about a conversation, stand up, stretch, and breathe slowly for two minutes.
If you are caught in self-doubt, set a simple physical goal and complete it — even if it is just walking up and down the stairs a few extra times.
The goal is not to "work out" or achieve some ideal level of fitness.
The goal is to disrupt the mental spiral with physical action, and to create proof that change is possible.
Start small. Stay consistent.
Let your body show your mind what it is capable of.
The Bottom Line
Healing, resilience, and growth are not achieved by waiting for the right thought or perfect motivation. They are built, one small action at a time, through the daily choice to move when it would be easier to stay frozen.
You do not have to climb Everest to build a new story about yourself.
You only have to take one step, and then another.
If you are ready to create real, lasting change — not through forcing yourself, but by building steady, healing habits — I invite you to join us inside The Habit Healers Mindset’s Inner Circle. It is where we practice small actions that build unstoppable identity shifts, day by day, in community with others walking the same path.
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Absolutely true. I have been doing this for most of my adult life and it has got me through some really bad times In fact, in one of my books, I used the words "I had climbed my Mount Everest". Currently, having to keep doing that, because having had quite a bit of trauma on my life, it becomes a challenge again to conquer the "dips". But do-able! I am enjoying your insight.
Wonderfully written, Laurie. You speak from experience and practice. I echo your saying. My daily moderate yoga stretch with conscious breathing saved me from going to rabbit hole during grief time. Everyday I just take small step, and each step establishes the foundation for the next day like the domino effect you wrote in the other story. After 2 years, I regained the physical strength, become more confident, and stay more on the sunny side, reaching out and helping seniors in my neighborhood with compassion. Thank you for sharing wonderful tips. You are beautiful at heart.