The First Habit I Prescribe as a Doctor
The First Five: A doctor-designed morning framework—straight from the exam room.
You’d be surprised how often this happens.
Someone sits across from me, exhausted, frustrated, sometimes in tears, and says:
“I know something needs to change. But I don’t even know where to start.”
And when they do, I don’t hand them a meal plan.
I don’t ask about their supplements.
I don’t suggest they “try harder.”
Instead, I offer them something deceptively simple. Something small enough to start right now, but strong enough to stabilize everything that follows.
I give them The First Five—a five-minute morning framework designed to restore rhythm, reset the nervous system, and reconnect them to their own power.
It’s the first thing I recommend when someone says, I’m ready... but I’m overwhelmed.
And it works.
Why The First Five Comes First
In medicine, we’re trained to manage problems.
To diagnose. To treat. To stabilize.
But we’re not taught to address the root cause of why so many people stay stuck in cycles of stress, inflammation, exhaustion, or illness.
We weren’t taught how to restore rhythm.
We weren’t trained in nervous system regulation.
We weren’t shown how habit and healing are inseparable.
So what happens?
We prescribe quick fixes for complex patterns.
We manage symptoms without anchoring the system.
And behavior change doesn’t do much better.
It jumps straight into goals without building the safety or stability required to sustain them.
That’s why I created The First Five.
Not as a morning routine. But as a physiological reset.
A pattern that speaks to the body before demanding change from it.
It’s five simple actions that say: You’re safe. You’re steady. You’re back in motion.
And when practiced consistently, they become a biological rhythm, calming, cueing, and reinforcing a new identity.
This is where real healing begins:
Not with more effort.
But with a new foundation.
The Science Behind The First Five
This five-minute ritual works because it speaks to the part of your system that most “health plans” forget: your autonomic nervous system.
Each element is chosen to:
Regulate stress physiology through breath and rhythm
Activate reward pathways with achievable completion
Restore agency through repeated identity cues
Build consistency without requiring willpower
The First Five is a prescription for safety, not productivity. It creates the conditions for healing before you even open your calendar.
What’s in The First Five?
This isn’t a morning routine that adds more pressure.
It’s a low-bar ritual that builds high-impact return.
Here’s what it looks like:
The First Five Framework
A doctor-designed 5-minute morning habit sequence
1. Water
Drink one full glass of water before caffeine or screens.
This replenishes hydration after sleep and signals: I’m tending to my body.
2. Breath
Close your eyes. Take one slow inhale.
Then exhale—slower than your inhale.
Repeat 2–3 times.
This shifts you into parasympathetic mode, calming cortisol and blood pressure before the day begins.
3. Intention
Say one short sentence to yourself.
A phrase that connects you to who you’re becoming.
Examples:
– Today I return to myself.
– One healing habit is enough.
– I’m not behind. I’m beginning.
– My body is listening and I am too.
4. Stillness
Sit, stand, or move in silence for just one minute. No input.
Feel the temperature of the air. Notice your breath. Nothing to fix, just to feel.
5. Presence
Before picking up your phone, look out a window or step outside.
Anchor into light, sound, and space. Orient to the day as a person, not just a task list.
Why This One Habit Changes Everything
Patients often expect the first prescription to be about food, labs, or exercise.
And yes, those matter.
But without a reliable, repeatable moment of safety, those bigger habits rarely stick.
We default to urgency. We reach for control. We start strong—and stall out fast.
The First Five builds consistency by grounding you first in physiology, not performance.
And physiology is the soil from which every healing habit grows.
When practiced consistently, even just four days a week, it begins to change how you relate to mornings. Then to movement. Then to meals. Then to yourself.
This is how identity shifts: not in one breakthrough, but in a quiet rhythm that repeats.
What Happens Next
Here’s what I’ve seen, again and again, when patients begin with The First Five:
Their language changes. ("I came back to myself today.")
Their mornings feel less reactive.
Their confidence returns.
Their nervous systems settle.
Their larger health goals begin to feel possible.
And if they miss a day? They don’t spiral.
Because The First Five isn’t a test. It’s a return.
You Don’t Need a Morning Routine. You Need a Morning Reset.
Every day doesn’t need to be perfect. But it helps to begin with a pattern that holds.
That’s what The First Five is.
It’s what I use. It’s what I teach.
And it’s what I offer to you.
Start tomorrow, before the noise. Before the scroll. Before the rush.
Do The First Five:
Water.
Breath.
Intention.
Stillness.
Presence.
Five minutes. Five signals. One path forward.
Let that be your beginning.
Ready to Go Deeper? Join the Inner Circle.
If The First Five resonates with you—if you’re craving consistency, calm, and clarity in your habits—I invite you to take the next step.
Each week inside the Habit Healers Mindset’s Inner Circle, I’ll guide you through a deeper layer of healing.
You’ll get:
A powerful weekly practice built around a core habit
The science behind why it works (no fluff, no fads)
Reflection prompts and mindset shifts to keep you moving forward—gently, steadily, successfully
A safe space to return to—especially when life feels loud
The Inner Circle isn’t about doing more.
It’s about healing at the level where change actually lasts—through rhythm, identity, and intention.
You don’t need a bigger plan.
You need a better foundation.
Let’s build it together—one healing habit at a time.
Click here to join the Habit Healers Mindset’s Inner Circle
You’ve already begun. Now let’s keep going.
I love this Dr. Marbas!! It's so simple yet so profound!! Thanks for posting this, it's a great reminder and way forward towards healing. I so appreciate being part of your group, it really is changing me for the better (not for the perfect...which has held me back!). Loved it!!!!!!
Instead of focusing on addressing symptoms one should find path to cure it from root.