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This Is What It Sounds Like When Insulin Screams

This Is What It Sounds Like When Insulin Screams

Metabolic betrayal from the inside.

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Laurie Marbas, MD, MBA
Jun 03, 2025
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The war didn’t start with a Big Mac.

It started with trust.

See, for most of human history, your cells and your hormones were on the same team. They worked in rhythm. You ate, insulin showed up, and your cells opened the door like, “Hey friend, come on in!” Glucose entered. Fuel got burned. Everyone clapped.

Then the inputs changed.

The meals got bigger. More frequent. More refined. Sugar arrived with backup dancers. Fat came in through the side door. Sleep got shorter. Stress got louder. Movement left the building entirely.

At first, the cells tried to keep up.

Muscle cells took the sugar. Fat cells did too. The liver tried to moderate the chaos.

But over time, it became too much.

So the cells did what any boundary-violating relationship therapist would recommend.

They stopped opening the door.

And insulin? She panicked.

She raised her voice. Knocked harder. “Let the glucose in!”

The cells ignored her.

She shouted.

They deadbolted.

Meanwhile, glucose sat outside like a confused DoorDash driver with six unclaimed pizzas.

The bloodstream got crowded. Triglycerides soared. Fat began showing up inside the liver and inside the muscles—places it was never meant to be. This is lipotoxicity. Fat in the wrong zip code, mucking up the machinery.

Inside the cell, mitochondria choked.

Outside the cell, insulin flooded the system.

And still—nothing worked.

The pancreas, like a parent running late, kept handing out more insulin. “Here. Maybe this will help.”
It didn’t.


A Listening Problem

Because this wasn’t an insulin problem. It was a listening problem. The body wasn’t broken. It was tuning out.

Insulin resistance is not laziness. It’s not stupidity. It’s not failure.

It’s overexposure.

Too much knocking. Too much noise. Too many glucose deliveries to a full house that never had a chance to clear out.

Now here’s where most stories pivot into fear.

This one won’t.

Because this isn’t a cautionary tale.

This is a reclamation story.

Because even now—after years of knocking, yelling, resisting—the body remembers.

A walk after dinner?

The cells perk up. Muscles start listening again. No insulin required.

A night of real sleep?

Cortisol quiets. The liver chills out. Hunger signals normalize.

A shift to whole, plant-rich food?

The fat starts leaving the liver. The muscles clear out. Glucose finally gets the green light.

Meal timing. Fiber. Sunlight in the morning. Less noise. More rhythm.

You’re not resetting a machine.

You’re reestablishing trust.

And when the trust is rebuilt?

Insulin knocks once.

The door opens.

And everything starts to work again—not because you hacked it.

Because you finally stopped yelling.


So… how do you reverse insulin resistance?

You don’t bargain with it.

You don’t outsmart it with gimmicks.

You rebuild trust with actions so consistent, so boring, so respectful, that your body has no choice but to believe you again.

Let’s break it down:


Step 1: Stop Knocking So Much

Eat less often. That’s the most underestimated, overlooked, and wildly effective strategy no one wants to talk about.

Insulin’s exhausted because she’s been knocking on doors all day. Breakfast. Snack. Coffee with syrup. Lunch. Snack. Dinner. Dessert. Wine.

Every time you eat, you ring the bell.

Give her silence. Give her hours where nothing comes in.

Twelve to fourteen hours overnight is a good start. Push breakfast later. Eat dinner earlier. Maybe three meals a day. Maybe even two. No snacks unless you’re climbing a mountain.

Let insulin rest.


Step 2: Feed the Fire, Don’t Smother It

Your cells run on glucose. But when you smother them with fat—especially the saturated kind—they choke. This is lipotoxicity. Not a myth. Not a metaphor. Actual fat inside the muscle cell, blocking the signal.

So switch the fuel.

Low-fat, whole food, plant-based.

That’s not moral advice. That’s mechanical.

Plants come with fiber, water, antioxidants, and space. They let the glucose in, let it get used, and then reset. They don’t dump fat into your cells like oil-backed metabolic graffiti.

More plants. More color. More fiber. Less fat.

That’s not deprivation. That’s relief.


Step 3: Move Like You Mean It

You want your muscles to start listening to insulin again?

Make them need glucose.

Every time you move—walk, lift, stretch, dance—your muscle cells open their doors without insulin. It’s like installing a second entrance. One that bypasses all the drama.

You don’t need CrossFit.

You need consistency.

  • Walk after meals.

  • Train your muscles.

  • Break up long stretches of sitting.

  • Move every day, even just a little.

You can’t out-supplement movement. You can’t outsource it. The key is in your legs, not a label.


Step 4: Sleep Like It’s Your Job

You want high cortisol, broken hunger signals, and cranky blood sugar?

Sleep five hours a night.

You want insulin to work like she used to?

Sleep seven to nine. In the dark. At the same time every night. Wake up with the sun if you can. It’s not magic. It’s maintenance.

Sleep doesn’t just rest your brain.

It re-sensitizes your cells.


Step 5: Take Out the Noise

Your cells aren’t just ignoring insulin. They’re ignoring everything. Because the noise is too loud. Stress. Screens. Frantic schedules. Unresolved fear. Inflammation from food, thoughts, and everything in between.

Bring back the signal.

  • Go outside in the morning light.

  • Breathe slowly before meals.

  • Sit still for five minutes without a phone.

  • Say no more often.

  • Create a rhythm your body can trust.

Insulin resistance isn’t just about food.

It’s about whether your body feels safe enough to listen again.


Here’s the framework, plain and simple:

1. Lower the frequency.
Fewer insulin spikes = more sensitivity.

2. Clear the clutter.
Low-fat, high-fiber plants = less lipotoxicity.

3. Move like you belong in your body.
Muscle contraction = insulin independence.

4. Sleep and de-stress.
Cortisol down = insulin up.

5. Repeat. Every day.
Not forever. Just long enough to remember.

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This isn’t a 30-day reset. This is a biological apology letter.

Your body isn’t waiting for perfection.

It’s waiting for pattern recognition.

It’s waiting for you to stop swinging between silence and screaming, between restriction and binge, between intensity and neglect.

Give it rhythm.

Give it enough good days in a row that insulin doesn’t have to scream anymore.

She’ll knock once.

And the door will open.

Again.


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